18 January 2019

ASK FATHER: Finding Good Sponsors for Confirmation

When our two oldest boys were Chrismated (Confirmed) in the Eastern Catholic Church, I hadn't thought of sponsors. As Fr Ferguson suggests, a couple of the people from the Parish stood sponsors for them. 

From Fr Z's Blog

From a reader…
QUAERITUR:
My son’s godmother passed away. He only had 1 godparent, because all the males I know, have not been confirmed. My question is what happens now? My son will be confirmed next year. Can someone else stand in for him?
GUEST PRIEST ANSWER: Fr. Tim Ferguson
Condolences on the death of your son’s godmother.
Canons 892 and 893 cover confirmation sponsors. While canon 893 says that it is desirable (expedit ut), this is not a requirement. In fact, canon 892 says that a confirmation sponsor is not absolutely required, but only “insofar as possible” (quantum id fieri potest).
If you’re having difficulty finding a sponsor for your son among family members and friends, you might wish to consider looking around those folks who are in the pews with you every Sunday.
In these times when fewer and fewer of many people’s family members are practicing the faith, I’ve often thought it would be a good apostolate for solid laypeople in a parish to establish a “guild” of sponsors, for baptism, confirmation, and even as best men/maid/matrons for marriage.

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