The Love of the Blessed Mother

Tomorrow is May Day, the beginning of the Month of Mary, dedicated to Our Blessed Lady and Queen. I will have many posts honouring her during the month.

From Catholic Stand

By Steve Greco

The month of May, during which the Church especially honors the Blessed Mother, is upon us.  How blessed are we that we have the love of the Blessed Mother! We have a spiritual mother who intercedes for us with her Son, just as she did at the wedding feast in Cana (John 2).

John’s Gospel further speaks of the special relationship we have with Mary when he recounts one of Jesus’ last actions as He was dying on the cross:

When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple there whom he loved, he said to his mother, “Woman behold your son.” Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother.” And from that hour the disciple took her into his home. (John 19:26-27)

A Marian Experience

My grandmother, Carmella, prayed the rosary every day and during Mass on Sunday. Growing up, I observed how peaceful she was when she prayed, but I did not have a devotion to Mary until later in life.

One time, I felt God calling me to France to visit Paris and Lourdes. In Paris, I received a Marian miracle. The Church of the Miraculous Medal is located on a street called Rue de Bac. I was led to pray in that church at the Communion rail, to meditate on the Blessed Mother.

Initially, my mind went blank, but then I heard a voice in my head: “I will give you the gift of poverty.”

Wow! I knew that voice couldn’t be my voice! I didn’t want poverty! I was so disturbed that I ran, shaking, to the back of the church and went into the last pew. I remember looking up and asking God, “Can we talk about this?”

Pondering the message, I realized I didn’t want to be like the rich young man in Mark’s Gospel (10:17-25) who didn’t want to do what it took to follow Jesus. I slowly walked to the front of the church and told the Lord, “I surrender completely to you, use me in any way you want!”

On the way back and when I returned home, the Lord revealed much more to me. He showed me the verse from Matthew:

“Blessed are the poor in spirit, / for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 5:3)

God revealed to me that “poverty in spirit” means putting God first in all things. Matthew’s Gospel says it succinctly:

“But seek first the kingdom [of God] and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you besides.” (Matthew 6:33)

I recognized that I had made many things my gods: my family, in trying to make everyone get along perfectly; Sunday afternoon dinner; success in business; my health. So many things.

The Fallout From That Experience

What happened following this time of self-realization?

My family had a major blow-up. Half the family stopped talking to the other half.  Not only was Sunday dinner off the table but also being together for holidays.

My good health was taken away; my back hurt with pains shooting down the side of my leg to my feet. I had sciatica but previously I didn’t even know what the word meant.

For six months, I could barely stand for more than thirty seconds without severe pain. I went to one doctor after another, had one treatment after another before I found a pain specialist who helped me.

Then I got fired from my job. One day, I was senior vice president of a major pharmaceutical company, the next, I was out on the street with no job. Ironically, I had recently been honored as one of the top executives in that company, told I was a “corporate treasure.” I was fired two months later when senior management changed.

God’s miracle, through what I believe was the voice of the Blessed Mother, was to show me that we need to trust God in the midst of all trials.

Mary Inspires Trust

He will turn trials into good when we trust in Him and believe in His healing power. I now believe these difficult events in my life were God preparing me for the diaconate program in our diocese. During that time, I had entered into the program’s four-plus years of formation.

When we pray with our Blessed Mother and ask her to intercede for us with Jesus, we can expect and experience miracles!

The love of a mother for her family is one of the great graces God bestows on us.  Our Lady loves the family.  Katie Hughes, who works with me in my apostolate, Spirit Filled Hearts Ministry, shares a miracle story of Mother Mary’s love for her child on earth. It is worth sharing with you to conclude.

Being in ministry, I’m often told of miracles that God has performed.  A friend had shared with me a miracle that happened to her after her young daughter died of an illness.

At that time, she was not going to church.  She had lost her daughter and had immense grief and sorrow. One particular event occurred during this difficult time, when this woman was grieving. She may not have realized it but she was praying fervently to God.  At this critical moment of despair, she saw before her the Blessed Mother.  She had appeared to this woman at the lowest point in her life and came to give her a simple message that would change her.  The Blessed Mother looked at her and let her know she understood her pain.

She knew her pain and this intervention of Our Blessed Mother gave this mother the understanding that God is listening and is right there and that her Heavenly Mother knew her pain and would not abandon her.